At Find Your Magic, we love sharing inspiring stories of people who have embraced their true passions, taken bold leaps, and built lives that bring them joy. In our first-ever podcast episode, we spoke with Owain Evans—chiropractor, opera singer, and founder of The Big Gay Out—about his journey to living his magic.
From overcoming self-doubt to redefining success on his own terms, Owain’s story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to follow your heart. Here are the 5 biggest takeaways from our conversation.
1. Your Magic Might Not Be a Straight Path—and That’s Okay
📌 “The path to finding our magic isn’t always straightforward. Quite the opposite, really.”
Owain didn’t take the “traditional” route to becoming an opera singer or community leader. Instead, he followed different passions at different points in his life, from science to chiropractic care to singing. His story proves that your journey doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
Lessons from Owain’s Journey:
✔ You don’t need to have it all figured out right away
✔ Passion can evolve over time—stay open to change
✔ Every step of your journey adds value, even the unexpected ones
Key Takeaway: Trust your instincts and embrace the twists and turns of your unique path.
2. We Often Start by Living for Others Before Living for Ourselves
📌 “We grow up trying to please others—usually our parents—at the expense of our own joy.”
Like many of us, Owain spent his early years seeking approval from family and society. He initially chose chiropractic work over the arts because he believed it was the “right” thing to do. But deep down, his love for performing never left him.
Signs You Might Be Living for Others:
✅ Choosing a career based on expectations, not passion
✅ Ignoring the things that bring you real joy
✅ Feeling like you always need to prove yourself
Key Takeaway: Your magic is yours to claim. At some point, you have to stop seeking approval and start choosing yourself.
3. Taking Action Is the Key to Living Your Magic
📌 “Living our magic requires us to take a lot of action.”
Owain’s story is a reminder that dreams don’t just happen—you have to create them. From auditioning for opera school to launching The Big Gay Out, he took bold steps to make his vision a reality.
How to Take Action on Your Dreams:
🔹 Start before you feel “ready”—growth happens through action
🔹 Take small, consistent steps toward what excites you
🔹 Surround yourself with people who encourage your growth
Key Takeaway: Living your magic isn’t just about passion—it’s about putting in the work to make it happen.
4. True Connection Happens in Real Life, Not Just Online
📌 “We live in a time where we’re more connected than ever, yet many of us feel more disconnected than ever.”
As the founder of The Big Gay Out, Owain created a space for LGBTQ+ people to connect in meaningful, offline ways—through activities like hiking, theater trips, and community events. His mission? To foster real human connection beyond dating apps and nightlife.
Why Real-World Connection Matters:
✔ Helps combat loneliness and isolation
✔ Builds stronger, more authentic relationships
✔ Creates a sense of belonging and support
Key Takeaway: Technology is great, but nothing replaces real, in-person connection.
5. You Are Enough—Right Now, Just as You Are
📌 “You don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You are enough already.”
One of Owain’s biggest lessons was realizing that he didn’t need to constantly prove his worth. After years of striving for external validation, he learned to embrace who he was—on and off the stage.
How to Embrace Your Enough-ness:
💡 Let go of the need to be “better” than others
💡 Focus on what makes you happy, not what impresses others
💡 Remind yourself that you deserve love, joy, and success
Key Takeaway: You don’t have to achieve more to be worthy. You are already enough.
Final Thoughts: What's Your Magic?
Owain Evans’s journey is a beautiful example of how we can all rediscover joy, embrace change, and build a life that feels truly fulfilling. His story reminds us that magic isn’t just about talent—it’s about taking action, trusting yourself, and finding connection in the world around you.
💫 What’s one step you can take today to live your magic?
🎧 Listen to the full episode here.
❤️ Connect with Owain
- Owain’s Website: www.thebackspace.co.uk
- Follow Owain on Instagram: www.instagram.com/owain_gywnfryn_baritone
- Big Gay Out Events: https://nas.io/big-gay-out
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